· An "Illusion of Grandeur" is when you believe that you have more power, wealth, smarts, or other grand traits than is true.
· "Visions of Greatness" refers to the concept of envisioning a future state of excellence, whether for oneself or a larger entity.
An illusion of grandeur is often found in a person who thinks they’re always the smartest one in any room. Sometimes they’re wrong, but they’re never uncertain. With a vision of greatness, a common person can help lead others to greatness. That’s all about teamwork. The first is about ego, the second about team. The first may be exciting to be around but the second won’t let you down. You’ll initially love the first in an interview, but probing questions will ultimately guide you to the second. Don’t let the first excite your ego while allowing the second’s humility to underwhelm you. In interviews or interactions, be sure to keep asking them both to tell you more – that’s where the real substance will be found. If you’re more like the second, don’t let success go to your head – be thankful anyone listened and let you get far enough to see your vision become reality. Because one good idea doesn’t confirm greatness. Several, maybe. But even so, we all must earn our stripes every day. People will rather work with someone who is hard working than someone who tells you they are. Because everyone’s shoulder to the collective wheel is the best way to work today.
Edwin Louis Cole (1922–2002): Founder of the Christian Men's Network, an American religious organization devoted to helping Christian men and fathers. He published many books and preached numerous sermons relating to men and religion.
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