Self‑Awareness Is a Leader’s Most Underrated Power 🔥

Don’t underestimate the importance of self‑awareness — the most important relationship in your career is the one you have with yourself.

Your self‑respect and inner character matter more than public opinion. Authenticity means following your own moral compass instead of reshaping yourself to please or impress others. But authenticity isn’t always easy. In the workplace, people often temper their voice, defer to stronger personalities, or try to meet expectations that conflict with what they know is right. Leaders must be attuned to these dynamics and skilled at mitigating them.

That means making sure everyone participates. Ensuring no one is silenced or overshadowed. Asking questions that draw quieter voices into the conversation. Preventing dominant personalities from steering discussions away from balanced, thoughtful dialogue. Effective leaders move people from the sidelines to the center — giving them confidence, competence, and pride in their contributions.

These things don’t happen on their own. Inclusion, teamwork, and effectiveness must be intentionally fostered by leaders who understand their own strengths and their employees’ needs. Leaders who use emotional intelligence, servant leadership, coaching skills, and clear communication to bring out the best in others.

These aren’t “nice to have” skills. They’re foundational to building pride, confidence, and meaningful performance today.

Michel de Montaigne (1533 – 1592): French statesman and author who was one of the most significant writers of the French Renaissance. He is known for popularizing the essay as a literary genre.

Pride Starts with How You Treat Others ⚡

Humility isn’t a weakness in leadership — it’s the engine that keeps you learning.

Humility is a psychological and moral strength built on modesty, accurate self‑assessment, and the absence of ego. It isn’t thinking less of yourself; it’s thinking of yourself less so you can genuinely see others. Its core dimensions — self‑awareness, openness, and grounded confidence — are the foundation of effective leadership. Research consistently shows that humble leaders build stronger relationships, make better decisions, and accelerate both personal and organizational growth.

In my experience, humble leaders create workplaces where people feel safe, respected, and able to perform at their best. They give and receive feedback without drama. They care more about their employees’ effectiveness than their own titles. They understand that their success is tied directly to the success of the people they lead.

That’s the point I emphasize in consulting: a manager’s primary responsibility is ensuring their employees are effective. That requires emotional intelligence, situational awareness, clear communication, and a coaching mindset. It means knowing what your people do, understanding what they need, and being present enough to help them succeed.

Their pride isn’t about themselves — it’s about what they enable in others. That’s the hallmark of great leadership.

Focus on others today.

Sir James Matthew Barrie, 1st Baronet (1860 – 1937): Scottish novelist and playwright, best remembered as the creator of Peter Pan.

Your Story Only Comes Alive When You Do 🔥

When you look back on your life and career, what will you see? Passion is the difference between a story worth telling and one that simply passed by.

I’m at the age where much of my story sits in the rear‑view mirror. Plenty of great stories — many of them shared in these daily messages — told with the same passion I felt while living them. But life isn’t just a string of good news. There were bumps, detours, and lessons I didn’t expect. Passion carried me through all of it.

Teaching at the college level was one of my greatest thrills. I loved challenging students not just to learn, but to think. To speak and listen. To wrestle with what they truly wanted to do in the real world — a question many had never seriously considered. My class was pass/fail, but not in the traditional sense. Pass meant they showed up with enthusiasm and engaged fully. They were hesitant at first, but by the end of the semester every one of them was ready to rock and roll in the real world.

I’ve always seen myself as an inspirationalist — a leader who embodies a vision and uses it to drive change. And a cheerleader. That approach shaped how I planned, communicated, coached, and recognized others. Looking back, that’s what passionate leadership really is: showing people what’s possible and helping them believe in it.

And then there are these daily messages. Even without a team around me, I treat them as my own personal coaching session — a way to stay committed to becoming a better version of myself. I’m still passionate about that. And I invite you to find inspiration in these stories and begin writing one of your own today.

Vincent van Gogh (Dutch: (1853 – 1890): Dutch Post-Impressionist painter who is among the most famous and influential figures in the history of Western art. 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vincent_van_Gogh

Leaders Shape How People Feel About Their Work 👥

Joy in life is deeply connected to joy in work — and leaders play an important role in helping people find it. Passion isn’t just about loving what you do. It’s about creating the conditions where work supports life rather than competes with it. That balance should be important to leaders.

Years ago, I attended an event where Jim Clifton, CEO of Gallup, spoke about engagement. The numbers he shared then are almost identical to the numbers Gallup reports today. Engagement hasn’t changed much — and that’s the problem.

Gallup tracks worker engagement using strict categories. In the U.S., 31% of workers are engaged, while 17% are actively disengaged. The remaining 52% sit in the middle — “not engaged.” They show up, but they lack passion. Globally, engagement is even lower, averaging only 20%.

These numbers matter because engaged employees are generally happier employees. They’re the ones who love their work, are engaged, act as role models, and stay the  longest. They know your company, your products, your customers, and they feel invested in your success. Passion and engagement are inseparable.

But here’s the part leaders often overlook: loving your work strongly supports a fulfilling personal life. When people enjoy their career, positive emotions spill over into their off‑hours. They carry higher energy levels, a happier mindset, better physical health, and stronger personal and professional relationships. Joy at work becomes joy in life. 

That’s why leaders must help employees get into the right mindset to achieve a healthy work‑life balance.

Talk to them about setting goals — clarity around what they’re striving for and how success will be measured.

Talk to them about setting boundaries — alignment around what is and is not expected.

Then talk to them regularly about how they’re doing — not once a year, but continuously.

And as the workforce continues to get younger, this becomes even more important. Work‑life balance is high on Gen Z’s radar. Leaders who connect with this generation apply emotional intelligence, communication, and coaching skills with intention. They understand that passion grows where people feel supported, not stretched thin.

If you want employees who love their work, look for leaders who love theirs — and watch how they make their people feel the same today.

Thomas Aquinas (1225 – 1274): Italian Dominican friar and priest, theologian, and philosopher. He is considered one of the most influential thinkers in the history of Catholic theology and Western philosophy.

People Do Good Things Every Day — Leaders Need to Notice 👀

Passion becomes real the moment you decide to make a positive impact — not someday, not when conditions are perfect, but today, in whatever small way you can. Meaningful work isn’t defined by size. It’s defined by intention.

People do positive things all the time. The problem is that very few people notice, and even fewer say something about it. That was part of last week’s story about the Golden Nugget’s Housekeeping attendants — but here’s the rest of it.

When we discovered that GRAs loved their jobs but not the way they were treated, we dug deeper. What we found was simple and painful: nobody ever mentioned the good things they did each day. Not once. Not ever. They were invisible in all the ways that mattered.

·      So, our Employee Services team created the “Gotcha” program.

·      Supervisors were instructed to note everything — the good and the not‑so‑good.

·      When performance slipped, employees received coaching and a counseling notice.

·      But when they did something right — from showing up on time to delivering extraordinary service — they earned Gotcha points.

·      Those points could be collected and redeemed for logo items, prizes, even days off with pay.

Doing both showed fairness. And because employees did far more good things than bad, the points accumulated quickly. That motivated them to do even more good things. Eventually, we implemented this program in every department. And got a reputation for catching employees doing things right. set a policy goal: throughout their department, managers had to give out three Gotcha awards for every coaching notice. We tracked the ratios. We reported them. Departments competed. Managers competed. And positivity became contagious.

The idea wasn’t original. Growing up, retailers handed out S&H Green Stamps[1] as incentives. I remember going with my mother to the redemption center, picking out items we earned through everyday purchases. I loved that idea — and I loved modeling our program after it.

And it worked.

The year before The Mirage opened, GRA turnover at the Golden Nugget averaged 300%. The year after it opened, turnover dropped to 18%. A year later, it was 8%. 

Same job. Different approach.

It matters when someone does something positive. It matters even more when someone notices — and makes a big deal out of it — today.

Sir Richard Charles Nicholas Branson (born 1950): English business magnate who co-founded the Virgin Group in 1970, and, as of 2016, controls five companies.

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[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/S%26H_Green_Stamps : During the 1960s, the company issued more stamps than the U.S. Postal Service and distributed 35 million catalogs a year.^[1] Customers received stamps at the checkout counters of supermarkets, department stores, and gasoline stations among other retailers, which could then be redeemed for products from the catalog.^[2]

Passion Is a Choice 🎯… Not a Coin Toss 🎲

Passion isn’t an accident. It’s a decision — a conscious choice to pursue the kind of work that makes you come alive. And that decision starts long before someone accepts a job. It starts with understanding what you really want to be, and whether the place you’re considering will help you become it.

I recently watched Steve Wynn talk about hiring on Instagram. Like most gamblers — and poker players — he sizes people up quickly. But what struck me wasn’t his instinct. It was his advice. He encourages candidates to ask enough questions about the company, its mission, its objectives, its management style (his and the organization’s), and its culture. He wants them to feel good about what they’re getting into. He doesn’t want them to have buyer’s remorse. It’s too disruptive when either side makes a mistake.

He’s right. Most hiring managers spend too much time talking and not nearly enough time listening. Much of what they need to know is already on the résumé. A few clarifying questions will tell you the rest. But the odds of a candidate being successful — and passionate — increase dramatically when they get all their questions answered.

So, flip the script:

·       Let candidates know, in the job posting or when scheduling the interview, that you expect them to interview you.

·       Know what you want them to understand about your company, your expectations, and your culture — and make sure your answers paint the full picture.

·       If they leave out a question you think matters, suggest it. That gives them more information than they expected, reveals their critical thinking skills, and ensures both sides have what they need to make a good decision.

Sometimes those two decisions match. When they do, you hire people who will be happy, committed, and passionate about their work — your future superstars.

Other times, the decisions don’t match. That’s when you should tell them, honestly and without hesitation, that if they don’t love something, they shouldn’t do it. Talk about alternatives. Be a career coach. Help them find the right fit, even if it isn’t with you.

Both paths end the interview on a positive note. One launches a passionate career. The other builds good karma.

That’s how you make win‑win hiring decisions today — by helping people choose work they can love, and by choosing people who will love the work you offer today.

Ray Bradbury (1920 – 2012): American author and screenwriter in a variety of genres, including fantasy, science fiction, horror, mystery, and realistic fiction.

Stop Wandering. Start Choosing. 🚀🗺️

Most careers drift not because people lack talent, but because they never decide where they’re actually trying to go. At some point, you’re responsible for deciding who and what you want to be.

Life’s small decisions are easy — dinner plans, weekend choices, the daily navigation of a busy existence. But the big decisions require attention, reflection, planning, and commitment. The stakes are enormous.

Baby Boomers and Gen Xers were guided through those choices by parents, teachers, counselors, and influential family friends. College was the dream our parents had for us because they missed out. Career choices mattered.

My own direction came from growing up in the 60s and 70s — the music, a young priest at the church where I volunteered as a Head Start teacher, and a family friend who showed me what a “personnel manager” actually did. That’s when I realized I wanted to help others.

Today the world feels more complicated and less certain. Where my generation wanted to work hard and make a difference, many young people worry there aren’t many differences left to be made. That’s where leaders have a role to play:

• When interviewing, zero in on what candidates are really looking for. Give straight answers about the job, and don’t hesitate to offer career advice they can use immediately.

• When supervising, listen to their questions, give real‑time feedback, coach them toward what they truly want, and mentor them in the parts of the work you love most.

• As a leader, be visible and accessible. Share the choices you made and help them discover the things that excite them.

Work isn’t just about job descriptions. Those describe tasks — not the meaning behind them. During onboarding and skills training, get engaged with your employees. Learn their preferences, coach them toward what they need, and tell them why you love what you do.

These are the little things that help people discover the big things about their life and work today. 

 

Charles Lutwidge Dodgson (1832 – 1898), better known by his pen name Lewis Carroll, was an English author (Alice's Adventures in Wonderland (1865) and its sequel Through the Looking-Glass (1871), poet, mathematician, photographer and reluctant Anglican deacon.