Let the Detours Become the Best Parts of Your Story 🛣️📖

I’ve spent years telling stories — this is the first time I’m learning to tell one while I’m still inside it.

Within ten minutes of starting out yesterday, we crossed the Mississippi River — a landmark that fills your mind with adventure. Riverboats, Huck Finn, wandering spirits. And just like that, we were in Illinois, feeling confident and close to the finish line.

Then the GPS lost its mind and sent us miles off course. The detour cost us an hour, but it gave us something better: wide‑open fields, small towns, and a version of America you don’t see from I‑80. Places that feel like our vacation cabin — quiet, simple, human. A world away from the interstate, but only a few miles off it. In one of the many hamlets across America.

The Census Bureau says nearly half of America’s towns have fewer than 1,000 residents. Forty‑two percent have fewer than 500. These are places where people know each other, help each other, and walk at their own pace. Where life isn’t about accumulating things — it’s about accumulating moments.

I’m reminded of an old friend who gave away everything he owned except what fit in one suitcase. Extreme, yes — but the spirit of it resonates. Our daughter’s business says the same thing in a gentler way: for everything you bring in, let something go. Out here, that philosophy feels natural. Life is lighter. People seem lighter too.

After our detours, we rejoined the under‑construction interstate and eventually reached our next Harvest Host: a working farm in Indiana’s Amish Country. They greeted us and offered a list of things to see and do, but we chose to simply be present — to enjoy their hospitality and take a tour of the goats and cows their daughter will show at 4H this weekend.

As the sun set over rural Indiana, a quiet peacefulness settled in. No souvenirs. No shopping bags. Just another experience added to the story we’re living.

Fill your life with moments like that. The other stuff can wait today.

Abhysheq Shukla: Indian author, motivational speaker, and the writer of The Shadows of the Dark Souls, a book of inspirational reflections. He’s part of a modern wave of Indian writers whose short, punchy aphorisms spread widely on social media.

Look Closer — The Heartland Has More to Teach Than the Headlines Do 👀🌬️

Curiosity didn’t arrive with fireworks — it slipped in quietly and began to change our perspective.

We left the Crazy Y Farm at sunrise, heading east into the heartland. For miles in every direction, farm fields stretched to the horizon — feeding a nation and much of the world. The families who run these farms don’t need punchlines or politics to define them. They’re heroes and sheroes in work boots.

Out here we’ve seen power plants, solar farms, and wind turbines — all working together to keep the lights on. One Harvest Host told us they raise multiple crops just to stay ahead. And they rely on multiple energy sources to keep them and America running.

I‑80 has been under reconstruction much of the way so far — adding a third lane each way across Nebraska and Iowa. It’s the modern upgrade to the interstate system Eisenhower built in the 1950s, the backbone of American mobility. Forget the speeches. Drive the highway and feel the greatness under your wheels. I‑15 to 70 to 76 to 80 to 90 — our route from sea to shining sea.

The road crews we’ve passed are white, Black, Latino, Asian, Native American, and multiracial — just like the people in the rest areas and truck stops. Just like the teams I worked with for 40 years in hospitality. America’s workforce is a patchwork quilt of backgrounds and perspectives, each person putting a shoulder to the wheel of productivity. When leadership is enlightened, the team becomes greater than the sum of its parts. I’m seeing it through the windshield as clearly as I’ve seen it in my own career.

Last night brought us to Parnell, Iowa — to Old Man’s Creek Vineyard and Winery (named for the actual creek at the entrance to their property). First peaches, then popcorn, now wine. There are 11,620 vineyards in the U.S., tied with Germany for third in the world behind Italy and France. We didn’t know that until our host told us. They grow grapes for ten different wines, which we sampled at check‑in. We left with three bottles and a few more stories for the campfire.

This trip began with curiosity and a touch of adventure. Both have grown immeasurably as America rolls past our windshield. So have our feelings of awe and pride. The last time I drove across the country was during the bicentennial. Fifty years later, this journey is renewing what I felt back then.

Take your curiosity for a ride. It will take you places worth seeing today. 

Lovelle Drachman: Widely referenced as the author of this quote, but no other information can be found about her. This is the 4^th time in 18 years that’s happened.

Don’t speed past the beauty all around you... 🌄

Somewhere between the airplane we never boarded and the highway we never planned, the adventure found us.

Out West, the speed limit hovers between 75 and 80 mph. Normally, I’m right there with the pack — cruising fast, shaving minutes, focused on efficiency. But after two days driving an RV through the mountains, we’ve averaged 60 mph, and discovered something unexpected: slowing down is a good thing.

At the higher speeds, everyone jockeys for position — trucks, cars, all of them weaving in and out like they’re in a race no one remembers entering. But at 60, they simply pass us and move on. No drama. No competition. Just space.

I used to assume slow drivers were older or confused. Now I realize they learned long ago what I’m only discovering now. Life on the road mirrors life in general — there’s a lot to be gained by slowing down, noticing the scenery, and letting the world come to you. At high speeds, mistakes multiply, nuances disappear, and relationships get left in the rear-view mirror.

That’s how I miscalculated our driving times — seven hours becomes ten. But the tradeoff is worth it. Those extra hours give you time to gaze out the windshield at rolling landscapes and endless skies. And there’s a certain peace in not scanning the mirror for police cars or speed traps.

Yesterday we crossed the width of Colorado, leaving the peach farm behind and watching the mountains flatten into the prairies of Nebraska. Out here it’s farms, livestock, and fertile fields — simple, honest, beautiful. Best savored at reduced speeds.

Our host last night was the Crazy Y Farm — not crazy at all, just the name of their upside‑down Y brand. A working farm where they proudly show off their equipment and introduce you to their pets. Only two RV spaces. We pulled in and they gave us some freshly popped corn, explaining how they sell it to all the major retailers and resellers. After dinner we watched a sunset that stops you mid‑sentence. 

Most of what we think we know about this country comes from the news. But the view from this driver’s seat is more impressive, more humbling, and far more hopeful. Gone is the noise. In its place: America the beautiful.

We’re now in the 3^rd time zone since leaving home. And today’s lesson is simple: slow down. The adventure is easier to see when you’re not racing past it. Put on the brakes and see what you might discover today.

Helen Keller (1880 – 1968) was an American author, disability rights advocate, political activist, and lecturer.

Learn more: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helen_Keller  

Plugging In, Figuring Out, Moving Forward 🔌

The first mile wasn’t heroic — it was exhaling, gripping the wheel, and finally moving forward. And that’s when the fun began.

Cruise America sent pre‑pickup videos and FAQs to “familiarize” ourselves with RV operations. A nice young man at their office walked us through the highlights and reminded us of the 800‑help line. Yet as we pulled out of the driveway, we still weren’t sure whether the refrigerator ran on propane or the generator.

As we drove away, this is what I thought while looking out the rear-view mirror:

·       Never underestimate the importance of clear instructions. There’s always a gap between what’s taught, what’s heard, and what’s actually learned — and that gap shows up in the awkwardness of doing something for the first time.

·       Effective instructional communication helps people become comfortable and productive more quickly.

·       And the real measure of communication is whether the message was received and understood as intended.

In the service business, this responsibility often falls to supervisors. Whether they do it themselves or delegate it, they must go beyond asking, “Do you understand?” People often don’t — and rarely admit it. Be clear. Ask questions. Listen to their answers. Have them show you how. Coach them accordingly.

We eventually figured out the refrigerator, but that’s not the point. It was another reminder that onboarding is a process, not a checkbox.

After that, the world shifted to what was outside the windshield:

Yesterday delivered some of the most breathtaking geography of the trip. They call it Utah’s Panoramaland — wide‑open spaces, canyons, farmland, and arches stretching to the horizon. It looked exactly like the sales brochures, and for once, the brochures didn’t exaggerate.

We ended the day at The Mt. Lincoln Peach Company in Palisade, Colorado. Warm people greeted us, sold us peach and pear jellies, and showed us how to plug into the electrical hookup. Just like that, we were home for the night.

The day was a masterclass in planning, communication, and follow‑through. When messages land clearly, people move faster, feel more confident, and get to the meaningful work sooner. And when they don’t — well, you end up guessing which button keeps the milk cold. Make sure your people really understand today.

Laozi (6^th Century BC): also romanized as Lao Tzu, was a legendary Chinese philosopher and sage traditionally credited with writing the Tao Te Ching, one of the foundational texts of Taoism.

The Road Leading Out of My Comfort Zone ✈️➡️🚐

Life recently nudged me out of my comfort zone and shoved me onto a completely different road.

It’s the start of the summer heat in Las Vegas and and our annual migration to the Adirondack Mountains. Last year’s trip went sideways before it even began: our 10‑pound chorkie (a chihuahua/yorkie mix) barked while boarding, and the captain had us thrown off the plane. That moment has lived rent‑free in my nervous system ever since.

So this year, instead of a one‑day flight across the country, we’re renting an RV and taking six days to drive 2,300 miles through the heartland and on to the East Coast.

Our daughter is joining my wife and me — something we’ve never done before. We’re total newbies to RV life, and will be stopping each night at a Harvest Host farm, described on their website as one-of-a-kind places to stay and connect with fellow travelers. 

People who know me would say I like getting where I’m going quickly — but life had other plans for this trip. Now I’ll be learning to embrace the slower road. For me, this trip will be a disruption, a forced change, and a reluctant beginning all rolled into one.

So, this week’s messages will take a detour also. Instead of loyalty (normally next up on my theme wheel), I’ll be writing about curiosity and adventure — qualities equally at home on the open road and in the workplace.

·       Curiosity is a cognitive and emotional superpower. It transforms your brain, sharpens problem‑solving, reduces burnout, and boosts empathy by helping you see the world through someone else’s eyes.

·       A sense of adventure is its companion. It pushes you out of your comfort zone, builds resilience, boosts confidence, and rewires your brain for growth. It lowers stress and expands your sense of what’s possible.

Needless to say, I’m curious to see how this all plays out. We leave Las Vegas at 6 a.m. Monday, heading toward our first stop in Grand Junction, Colorado. And this week’s messages will have a travel‑log tie‑in — all about the perspective out the windshield and the rear view mirror.

So buckle up and stay tuned. Life outside the comfort zone starts today.

Neale Donald Walsch (born 1943) is an American actor, screenwriter, speaker, and author of the series Conversations with God.

Integrity Is the Courage to Question Yourself 🧭 🔍🔥

“Better to trust the man who is frequently in error than the one who is never in doubt.” Eric Sevareid

The leaders who worry me aren’t the ones who make mistakes. It’s the ones who refuse to question themselves.

Integrity isn’t about being perfect. It’s the courage to admit uncertainty — to acknowledge what you don’t know and stay open to what you might be missing.

Uncertainty, when handled well, is a powerful catalyst. It clears out assumptions, disrupts autopilot thinking, and forces us to stretch beyond our comfortable routines. It fuels curiosity, sparks creativity, strengthens resilience, and deepens engagement. In other words, uncertainty is not a weakness. It’s a doorway.

But many leaders still believe they must project unwavering certainty, strength, and positivity at all times. The truth is more nuanced. Showing some uncertainty can increase trust and authenticity. Showing too much can undermine confidence. The key is framing uncertainty as purposeful, focused learning. Here are three ways to do that effectively:

·       Frame it as an investigation: “I don’t have the answer yet, but here’s what I’m doing to figure it out.”

·       Separate fact from unknown: “Here’s what we know for certain, and here’s what we’re still monitoring.”

·       Invite input: “What do you think?” “I’d love your perspective.” “Tell me more.”

Bottom line: leaders don’t build trust by pretending to know everything. They build trust by being authentic — open about what’s real, clear about what’s uncertain, and committed to learning forward.

If you’re certain, explain why. If you have doubts, share those too — and explain what you’re doing about them. Do that well, and your team won’t lose confidence. They’ll join you in figuring things out today.

 Eric Sevareid (1912 – 1992): American author and CBS news journalist from 1939 to 1977.           Learn more: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eric_Sevareid

Reliability Is the First Promise You Should Make and Keep 💥🕰️

People don’t trust you because you’re talented. They trust you because you show up — consistently, predictably, and without drama.

Ask any manager what they value most, and you’ll hear the same word every time: dependability. Schedules get built, shifts get assigned, and leaders wait to see who walks through the door ready to work. When everyone shows up, the day runs smoothly. When they don’t, it becomes a fire drill — notifications, scrambling for coverage, reshuffling tasks, and trying to keep team dynamics intact.

Most employees are reliable. But the few who aren’t can drag down performance, morale, and even the company’s reputation. And the consequences are predictable: discipline, termination, and the ripple effects that follow.

But there’s a quieter threat — the people who show up physically but not mentally. Gallup has been sounding the alarm for years: disengagement is rampant. Not just inattention, but careless waste of time, money, and opportunity. And while disengagement is hard to coach, research is clear on one thing: leadership engagement is the antidote.

People rise when leaders model the behaviors they expect. Reliability isn’t complicated. It looks like:

·       Meeting deadlines

·       Being punctual

·       Following through

·       Communicating proactively

·       Owning your responsibilities

These aren’t heroic acts; they’re the everyday signals that tell people you can be counted on. And that’s how trust is built.

Reliability is a two‑way street. If you want employees to show up for their colleagues and customers, you must show up for them. Consistently, visibly, and with integrity.

Ethical behavior starts with something simple: showing up today.

Wolfgang Schäuble (1942 – 2023): German politician who was the longest-serving member of any democratic German parliament. He served as the 13th president of the Bundestag from 2017 to 2021.