At the end of the day, we are who we are. Not who our parents hoped we would be, or others think we should be. And, despite our own plans, it’s often a continuing work in progress. Things around us changes and that affects the way we view the world and ourselves in it. Our circumstances change and that challenges and/or reinforces our confidence and thinking. And countless other things that change and impact us in some way. All leading to who we are. There’s a long-standing debate between nature and nurture and the impact of each on our lives – at some point I think they blend together; but after that it’s mostly on us. Looking back, I can almost draw as straight line from my early and formative years, college, and my lifelong career in HR – all pointing to my interest in helping others. Each of us have similar lifelines that lead us to becoming who we are – it’s a personal journey that should be accepted and respected by all. Because if we diligently seek to know and understand our motives, are open about where and how the journey leads, and accept responsibility for our decisions and actions, then we become who we are. Hopefully, not too full of ourselves or judgmental, learning to live and let live. Be who you are and let others be who they are today.
Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche (1844 – 1900): Widely influential German philosopher. He began his career as a classical philologist, turning to philosophy early in his academic career.