In a listening exercise I often use in workshops, I ask attendees to “try to stand” – invariably they all stand and are chagrined when we point out the instruction was simply to “try”. Cute, but instructive when discussing the importance of listening carefully. My former company’s Interview Policy instructs hiring managers to select ‘accept’ or ‘reject’ only; in this, there isn’t a maybe option – it forces clear thinking which in turn lead to decisions. These are examples of a do, or do not mindset where we must learn to think and decide rather than waffle or prevaricate, defined as an ambiguous or evasive way to avoid committing oneself. My point here is that managers must learn to be unambiguous in their communications and able to commit to definitive actions when supervising. Employees deserve that and, in fact, members of Gen Z (18% of today’s workforce, projected to be 30% in 2030) demand it. It’s good management practice to think in yes or no terms – not in all cases, like those where negotiation and compromise are appropriate, but certainly where and when it’s appropriate. Like in policy definitions, forced-choice decisions, and those times when clarity is important. Start thinking along these lines, practice where appropriate, and discuss the concept with your peeps. When try is not an option, do or do not today.
Yoda: A fictional character in the Star Wars franchise. He is a small, green, elderly humanoid alien who is powerful with the Force and typically speaks in an inverted phrase order. He first appeared in the 1980 film The Empire Strikes Back.