These words feel especially true as we stand on the edge of a new year.
On this last day of 2025, reflection hangs in the air. We look back on what we did, what we didn’t, what we’re proud of, and what we wish we’d handled differently. We look forward to what might be — the hopes, the plans, the quiet promises we make to ourselves when no one is listening.
As you prepare for the New Year, be gentle and realistic in your planning. Resolutions are wonderful, but only if they’re doable. Ask yourself honestly: Will you truly spend time every day doing this? Can you comfortably give up all of that?
Even the most righteous resolutions must reflect your interests, your style, your life. Just because you
can doesn’t mean you should — although sometimes, because you can, you absolutely should.
Start with one simple resolution: that you will keep the resolutions you make. Let that commitment shape the rest. Let the desire to finish what you start inspire you to carry through. Let “so beautiful or so what” guide you — a reminder that meaning is something you create, not something that happens to you.
As the year turns, may you choose the beautiful. And when you can’t, may you at least choose the honest.
Here’s to a year you make your own. Start by finalizing your resolutions today.
Paul Simon (born 1941): American singer-songwriter and guitarist, known for his solo work and his collaborations with Art Garfunkel.






