Pride Should Build, Not Consume 🔧

Real pride isn’t about taking more — it’s about leaving more behind, about leaving things better than you found them.

Generosity is the readiness to give freely and abundantly. It goes far beyond money; it’s a mindset that includes offering time, talent, attention, and emotional support to strengthen the well‑being of others.

Generosity is doing good for others. Pride is feeling good about what you do.

They go together — like soup and sandwich, peanut butter and jelly, and giving and taking.

In my consulting work, we use an exercise called The Commons, based on the ancient idea of shared village property. Several participants gather around a table with ten paper clips. No talking is allowed. I say “go,” and each person may take as many or as few clips as they wish. After five seconds, we stop and replace whatever was taken. The exercise ends when no clips remain on the table.

It sounds simple. The theory is that people will leave some behind for future rounds. But more often than not, someone grabs as many as possible, and the commons collapses in one or two turns.

That’s when the real conversation begins.

Historic commons were grazing fields, shared gardens, and community resources meant to be preserved for future generations. Workplaces are no different. People and processes must be stewarded, not just supervised. Communication must be clear, awareness must be sharp, and sustainability must be intentional.

People must give freely and take wisely. That’s how you approach each day with an eye on tomorrow — sharing during planning, in meetings, on projects, and in the countless interpersonal moments that shape a workplace.

It’s a mindset. One that must be stated clearly, reinforced continually, and celebrated in real time. Leaders must weave this into their vision and make it a daily reality. Starting today.

Khalīl Gibran (1883 – 1931): Lebanese American writer (The Prophet) , poet and visual artist.