Monday, September 1, 2025

Make the most of what's in your control: that's what people will remember about you...


Whatever you are, it’s mostly on you. You own it. Although there are many external forces at play in our lives, dealing with them, handling them, and shaping how they affect you is pretty much within your control. You mustn’t ignore them – there’s something to be learned from everything. You can’t really change them – they are what they are, so take the time to understand them. You shouldn’t try to embellish them – take them for what they are. And try to make the most (or least) of them – after all, they are part of your story. Emphasis on your. Whether it’s your career, your life, your hopes, your fears, your wishes. The more you own the more you can get the most out of them. And your life. Take this just past summer – was it what you wanted it to be? Yes or no: it’s yours. Your health – it’s yours. I could go on and on, but you get the gist of this. Take control. Own it. Write your story and it's ending today.

 

Casandra Brené Brown (born 1965): American social worker, academic, and podcaster.[1]

 



[1] She is the Huffington Foundation's BrenĂ© Brown Endowed Chair at the University of Houston's Graduate College of Social Work and a visiting professor in management at the McCombs School of Business in the University of Texas at Austin. Brown is known for her work on shame, vulnerability, and leadership, and for her widely viewed 2010 TEDx talk. She has written six number-one New York Times bestselling books and hosted two podcasts on Spotify.

 

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