So it’s the holidays and everyone looks forward to the season of giving. And while I was probably somewhere between naughty and nice this past year, I still got what I wanted.
Everyone told us that the best part of being a parent is having grandchildren, and when that day finally happened for us we gladly gave up heaven at the beach and moved back to the heat of Las Vegas. First Olive, and then 18 months later came Ella, and now we’re blissfully surrounded by all that grandchildren have to offer.
Don’t get me wrong: we love being back here with family and friends. My mother is still going strong at 92, my daughter and her husband are great parents that we love to watch and admire, my big brother and his wife are around for all the good big-brother stuff, and the good friends we made back when are still our good friends now. But it’s those two granddaughters who make it all worthwhile.
I’m still awkward when holding a new born, and nobody calls on me to change diapers or give baths…. but when it comes to reading books, being silly, and taking long walks, my name is near the top of the list. And thanks to the miracle of smartphones with cameras, I have pictures to prove it.
If anyone had asked what I wanted for the holidays, I’d have asked for someone to call me Pop Pop. And thankfully my wish came true.
My message this week is all about the joys of giving:
“For it is in giving that we receive.” Saint Francis of Assisi
So what did you get for Christmas? That’s the big question this week and the answers run the gamut from ‘nothing’ to ‘everything’. If you’re like me, you probably got some cool things you wanted or needed, and others that were unexpected but appreciated, and then some that made you scratch your head and wondered. And those you gave gifts to probably felt the same even though you most likely put a lot of thought into each. People have good intentions and try to find things that please, but that’s not always the case. So I guess it’s best to remember that it’s the thought that counts and that it is in the giving that we receive. That’s why this or any gift-giving season is a time to give what we can and to be appreciative and thankful for all that we receive.
Happy Holidays to all, and to all a good life!