A Change of View
For the past 6 years we’ve lived in Laguna Beach, an idyllic arts’ community in Southern California. It was like a dream come true: living in the canyon, smelling the sea in the air, walking the beaches and enjoying the best climate anywhere. Eclectic friends, the sound of the surf, and sunsets over the ocean all made living there very special.
But dreams, and views, change. The desire to be closer to family slowly eroded the dream and so we sold our house in the treetops of Bluebird Canyon this past week and are moving back to Las Vegas. The perfect weather, the sounds and sights and smells of the ocean, the friends we made there are now joining the memories of other past homes and communities. We thought we were going to stay there forever; but forever is a very long time.
Six years wasn’t forever, but it was more than enough time to again accumulate stuff that seemed superfluous when packing to move. Boxes that were filled one or more moves previously – do we really need that stuff? Drawers filled with this and that trinket that we just had to save – for what? Ok – the 300 record albums – can’t get rid of those……but not much stuff has memories like those old friends. And into the truck it all went for storage until we find our next home.
And as we head across the desert back to Las Vegas we can’t help but reflect on the fact that it’s not the stuff we collect but rather the families we have that are our most important and cherished possessions. We’ve lived in many places, but the place that we’re now drawn to the most is where our family is; and it’s the place we want to be. It doesn’t come with an ocean or beach, but a day with family beats those every day. Watching a sunset over the ocean is cool, but watching our granddaughter grow is immeasurably cooler. Change for this is good; changing our view about what’s really important: priceless.
My message this week is about getting the most out of life:
“It’s not what happens to you that determines how far you will go in life; it is how you handle what happens to you.” Zig Ziglar
Attitude has a lot to do with loyalty: as in the attitudes of those your work with, and your attitude about where you work and with whom. If you don’t like the people you work with, and how they treat you, then it’s hard to be loyal to them and your company. I’m not saying you have to love everyone, but there has to be mutual trust and respect, and good and open communications, and everyone should treat others the way they want to be treated. Those are the kinds of things that foster good attitudes, and help build and maintain loyalty. It won’t always be perfect, but if everyone is committed to these then your attitude and theirs will help build these relationships. And when things happen that might negatively affect those relationships, it’s not what happened as much as how you and your colleagues handle what happens. Be mindful of others’ needs and feelings, and they will most likely give you the same courtesy. And that will help build loyalty, today and every day.